When you can’t be as free as you would want to…

Virginity, this tiny membrane of flesh turned out to be a curse for a woman. There are still cultures and religions where a woman is required to stay pure till marriage and if she doesn’t she can face some dire and grave consequences.

But modern life has its temptations. A woman wants to use it to the maximum, especially if she knows that after she gets married she’ll be in a literal prison. So she discovers the pleasures of sex and loses the flower. However, not being innocent can cost her life, so however much I hate this necessity to conform, to be hypocritical and not to stand up for what you believe in, it’s better to be hypocritical and live. Already several years back quite some surgery clinics started to offer hymenoplasty as one of the procedures. Hymenoplasty is simply restoring the virginal membrane. It takes about 30 minutes under local anaesthetics. For those who can’t afford the surgical procedure another way was introduced. Do you know what the pic underneath shows?

It’s a fake hymen. One website sells them for about 23 Euros. You just put the stuff into your vagina, it makes you feel tighter and then during penetration it releases a certain amount of blood. Thus the rightful owner and master feels satisfied that he got undamaged goods…

Another, perhaps more practical and at the same time funny approach is presented in the video underneath.

Here while I applaud of the ‘creativity’ of such women who decide to do it this way, I don’t entirely approve of the motives presented in this video… I understand why women from really conservative families are forced to fake virginity, but this parody touches completely a different point.

Virginity vs women’s freedom

For long years women’s sexuality was oppressed. We were told that we just have to do our ‘marital duty’ no matter if we liked it or not, no matter if it was pleasurable or painful. Worse, we were supposed to stay pure and untouched and keep the flower for the husband who was supposed to be that first one. Patriarchal society and major religions excelled at brainwashing like this. Some cultures even went further than that (they still do) and mutilated women’s genitals by cutting off the clitoris and sewing the labia together… Just to make sure they stay untouched.

All of these equal to the fact that a woman and her pussy were commodities, the live commodities whose opinions or needs were not really taken into account. Additionally, even women themselves got brainwashed into believing and  maintaining this status quo. Don’t you remember, ladies, how your mothers told you that a respectable girl doesn’t do this or that? And urging you to guard your hymen for your future husband? Fortunately this is changing, more and more women in Western societies don’t believe the bullshit about staying innocent till marriage and prefer to explore their own sexuality whenever they want.

After all, if a woman’s completely innocent how can she tell if a man that  deflowered her and continues to have access to her bed as a ‘rightful master and husband’ does any good job there? If she can’t compare, she has absolutely no clue. Perhaps she could find a better man…

Getting a sexual match is equally important as other aspects of a relationship.

Of course it’s also bad news for you guys, ’cause now you have to prove your worth in bed to women who are aware of their sexuality and their needs. They know what they want and for sure it’s a not a man who cares only about his own satisfaction.

In Hekate’s Passage book, our female protagonists are not innocent girls, they have a certain amount of sexual experience and this is also why they can fully appreciate the skills of their rockers. These guys really rock their world.

Would you pay for a sex doll’s virginity?

Apparently there are people who would.

More than that, they would pay quite dearly. The bids for the virginity of a new sex doll that is just being introduced have reached $105,000.

The hymen of Valentina, Brazil’s first life-like sex doll can even sell for more as the bidding is not over yet. The online auction for this lady’s flower ends on 31 March and the ‘happy’ winner will get a package that includes:

• A night in the presidential suite of Motel Swing [a pay-by-the-hour motel] in the city of São Paulo
• A special candlelit dinner with French champagne
• An aromatic bath with rose petals
• Roundtrip flights (if you don’t live in Sao Paulo)
• Special lingerie (this is for her!)
• A digital camera so you can film and after show it to your friends

While I wouldn’t mind a night in a presidential suite, a candletit champagne dinner or an aromatic bath with rose petals as a prelude to a crazy night I suppose it’s much better idea to spend this amount of money on a real person instead just a doll. And I don’t care if her skin is similar in texture to human skin or the fact that “she has green eyes, fleshy lips, full breasts and a body that inspires envy in all women,” as the representative of Sexônico, the shop that launches this toy describes on their website. Personally I wouldn’t pay a cent for spending a night with a virgin (no matter male or female). What is in it for me? Just asking… Am I supposed to teach him or her everything?

Would you pay over 105,000 bucks for deflowering a sex doll, guys?

Isn’t it a kind of a refined and much overpriced masturbation?