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I remember watching Barbarella when I was a kid so I wasn’t really able to get all the sexual innuendos and hints at that time, I think I have to repeat the viewing session…

Anyway, this scene with young Jane Fonda melting in this ecstasy machine is very inspiring… It makes me think of our book heroes, about their sexual prowess and ingeniousness… They can make Eleyne, Yasmin, Melisa and Babette swoon and fly away in pleasure like this, can even make them faint from excess of pleasurable stimuli… But while we, women, can faint while climaxing,  dying from pleasure is just a fiction, correct me if I’m wrong. For a man though… Well, as the saying goes, nature gave you a brain and a penis, but only enough blood to sustain one of them… Really prolonged erection without a release, like the one that can be achieved by using rings on your penis, rings that don’t let the blood flow away, can put your life at risk.

Sexual advantages of being a woman


Can you think of any?

Well… The first thing that comes to mind are much more ways of experiencing orgasms, the other one that pops out is – multiple orgasms (unless you, gentlemen, learn that technique I mentioned a few posts back). What else?

Hmmm… For sure it’s an advantage that no one around knows that we may be having dirty thoughts and how aroused we are. Our pussies can be leaking and yearning for a penetration but you’ll be none the wiser. There are no very visible telltale signs of of our sexual excitement apart perhaps from our pupils being more dilated, our cheeks being rosier and more rugged breath. There’s no visible tenting up on the under waist, as it happens in your case, gentlemen.  We could almost masturbate in public and you wouldn’t know it. All it takes is putting our bag on our knees if we sit somewhere, slid our hand underneath our pants or skirts and then just start investigating the contents of our panties.  We can finger our clits in silence, after all, we’re vocal only for you in bed. When we do solo sex we don’t really need “ohs’ and ‘ahs’, all these pleasure moans to tell you how sexually skilled and efficient you are.

tumblr_l9gfdqiYAO1qbbfmvo1_500Any other ideas, ladies and gentlemen?

Multiple orgasms for men…

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Are multiple orgasms for men possible?  Those who are familiar with tantra methods probably know that they do exist and it is possible to achieve them. The key is understanding that orgasm and ejaculation are not the very same thing. They usually happen so fast that we are used to to thinking of them as one, but this is not the case. The point is, after you explode your load, there comes the refraction phase, this time when you are kind of “useless” to a woman who may not have climaxed yet as you lose your interest in sex. Instead of making her come, you’d rather just relax, smoke or just go to sleep (or go home). And it takes you some time to get ready for sex again.

But if you learn how to control and postpone your ejaculation, it is possible to have a few orgasms in a row. And it’s not so difficult to achieve. Enters the pubococcygeal muscle, in short PC. It’s located in your pelvic floor and you can find it easily by stopping your mid-stream pee. If you can’t do it, it means this little chap needs some exercise to get stronger. You need to be able to use it during intercourse as it’s the key to distinguishing between orgasm and ejaculation.

You can practice during  masturbation before introducing the method into your sex life. Slow, steady stimulation is recommended because it allows you to take note of the changes taking place as you move through the orgasm cycle. It will especially help you to distinguish between orgasm and ejaculation. Once you can feel yourself at the point of no return (orgasmic feelings just pre ejaculation), stop jerking yourself and squeeze your PC muscle for a count of ten. Give yourself a minute’s break, and then restart the hand job again to take yourself back to the same point. Ejaculation at any moment is entirely optional; you may find you prefer the undulating waves of repetitive orgasm too much! 

Once you’re ready to introduce the novelty to bed you might tell your partner about it, we may also treat your ejaculation as a mark of “well done job” and may be dismayed at the lack of your explosion.

More (knowledge about) orgasm is always welcome

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If you’re interested to find out more about climaxing I have a reading list for you. I suppose I should get down to reading some of these positions as well:

1.When the Earth Moves—Women and Orgasm Heart, Mikaya Celestial Arts Berkeley, Ca. 1998

2. The G Spot, Ladas, Alice Kahn, Whipple, Beverly, and Perry, John D.Holt, Rinehart and Winston, New York. 1982.

3. Human Sexual Response, Masters, William H. M.D. and Johnson, Virginia E.Little, Brown and Company, Boston. 1966.

4. The One Hour Orgasm, Schwartz, Bob. Breakthru Publishing, Houston, Texas. 1989.

5. Human Sexuality, Strong, Bryan and DeVault, Christine. Mayfield Publishing Co. Mountain View, Ca. 1994.

6. Sacred Orgasms, Stubbs, Kenneth Ra. Secret Gardens, Larkspur, Ca. 1992.

Orgasm – how many types of climax do exist?


You probably remember this note that we published not that long ago. Since that time while browsing the net I have found some more interesting things about orgasm that I would like to share with you. So first of all, how many types of orgasm do exist? And secondly, can only women experience them?

Let’s start the list for women then:

– clitoral orgasm, those of us that like to play with our little pearls of pleasure know it very well. If our partner is skillful with his tongue, lips and fingers he (or she) can lead us to it as well;

– vaginal orgasm, and while we’re at it these three just have to be mentioned:

i. G point stimulation orgasm (you already know how to find it, guys?), the interesting thing is, another G point can be also found in the anus…;

ii. the A spot orgasm – can be achieved by stimulating the point that is more or less 4-5 inches deep on the anterior wall of vagina, the same wall as G point is situated. And again A point can be also found in the anus…;

iii. the Deep spot orgasm (the posterior fornix orgasm) – through stimulation of all the area way back in the deepest part of the back wall of the vagina, just before the cervix.;

– squirting orgasm – through stimulation of G point or the clitoris, unfortunately not many women can experience it as it really resembles the need to pee, so we have to be really comfortable with our partners to let ourselves get carried away in this way. In fact quite some women can still confuse squirting with peeing…;

– orgasm through stimulation of the breast – yep, possible for us… ;

– oral orgasm – through kissing (oooh, our Jim’s an expert at this) or giving head… lol… a man’s dream 😉 but lips and the inside of the mouth is a powerful erogenous zone;

– the skin orgasm – can happen during sensual massages;

– dream-gasm – after having some really erotic and sensual dreams;

– mental orgasm – yep, while fantasizing about somebody really inspiring… I think I can confess that writing about our male protagonist can bring us really close to this state… Just an orgasm from the pure excitement alone;

– and finally, megagasm, according to Annie Sprinkle, Ph.D., Artist and Ecosexual Sexecologist., it’s the volcano of all orgasms, or the tsunami of all orgasms. A megagasm is an intense full body experience, a deeply emotional experience, and for some a deeply spiritual experience. It generally lasts an extended lengthy of time, from thirty seconds to in some cases up to an hour or two. Several megagasms have been documented on video, although they are extremely rare. Not that many women are capable of letting go that deeply or handling that much pleasure and ecstasy and orgasmic energy. As the name implies it can be brought on by some mega sensations – heavy fucking, super strong vibrator on the clit, anal sex, bondage experience etc…Generally experiences way beyond ‘normal intercourse’… I wonder, do the fainting of our female protagonists in the book count as megagasm?

Well, how many of these can men have? Given the fact that the G spot and A spot can also be found in anus they should be able to experience this kind of sensation. As for the rest, you can watch an interesting talk I found.

Feminine sexuality


While browsing internet I came across an article about celebs who waited with sex till after marriage. However, it’s not the hymen and glorifying its presence, the notion that was pushed upon us by the patriarchal society and various religions that I want to write about today. I got inspired by one of the comments that was under the article. It could be briefly summarized as follows:

Sex is much more pleasant for women because:

– they can have stronger orgasms as well as multiple ones as well as various types of of it while man can have only one and at a much weaker scope ;

– they get less tired, the only position when they actually work is the cowgirl or a reverse cowgirl;

– a woman can always have sex while a man may not get a hard on, more than that, when he does get a hard on he should watch out not to come too fast, which is pretty stressful;

– apart from the point above, a man has to show that he’s a good lover and make his lover climax (hear hear) while getting a man climax is not really so hard (a single gear shaft device 😉 );

– women have many more and much more sensitive erogenous zones than men, their skin is also 7 times more sensitive to touch;

– women have one body part that is solely dedicated to sex and pleasure and doesn’t serve any other purpose – the clitoris, more than that, the clitoris is a more sensitive organ than a men’s penis;

– after orgasm men lose the interest in sex and would just relax before having more of it while women can have more shagging straight away.

Well, well, well, given all these reasons, we should actually flock after men and molest them for sex all the time. But we don’t do it… Why? That is the question… Why are there so many jokes about headaches as an excuse for not wanting sex? And so on… Can you think of any plausible explanation for this situation?

However, here’s good news. Our novel’s female protagonists don’t have headaches, they are always ready and horny for their men. And even if it doesn’t reflect women’s attitudes in reality, the worse for reality. The book is a fantasy and we see no reason for writing about bad sex and bad lovers.  The rockers are perfect lovers, sex gods for these girls, that’s why Yasmin, Eleyne and the other 2 girls always want more sex and are ready to accept all kinky ideas of their lovers…


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10. Immediately go shopping for zucchini and cucumbers.

9. Squat over a hand-held mirror for an hour and a half.

8. See if they could finally do the splits.

7. See if it’s truly possible to launch a ping pong ball 20 feet.

6. Cross their legs without rearranging their crotch.

5. Get picked up in a bar in less than 10 minutes … BEFORE closing time.

4. Have consecutive multiple orgasms and still be ready for more without sleeping first.

3. Go to the gynecologist for a pelvic exam and ask to have it recorded on video.

2. Sit on the edge of the bed and pray for breasts too.

1. Finally find that damned G-spot.

Well, our male protagonists do know how to find a G-spot and you, guys? Or is it like it that joke about G-point and bar? The difference between the both is that the most men know how to find the latter… More clues? Well, Certainly for quite a lot of women their G-points are placed at the letter G in word shopping… You already knew guys, that quite a lot of us would prefer to go and buy some new dress, lipstick, shoes, you name it, instead of bed play? Especially if we could use your credit card…

Ok, more seriously. How to become a sex expert and  find and stimulate a G-point in a woman’s pussy in for those of you who don’t know yet. The instructional link is here, as I’m not sure if WordPress will permit such naughty videos embedded directly into the body of the post. Note that you may need to log in to confirm your age to watch.