Sexy videos

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Have you ever thought how much sex or erotic images of various kinds is used in music videos?

How many problems did Motley Crue have when in the mid 80s they decided to make a video that kind of glorified this rocker way of life, and more precisely, the easy sex they could get in all those stripper clubs. I’m talking of Girls girls girls. Frankly speaking, I’ve never seen the original video that is mentioned here where the strippers were completely naked as this article claims, just the censored version where they wear all those skimpy bras and panties. Does anybody know where to see the original?

I suppose Motley Crue were not the first to make an erotic video, for sure they were not the last.  Perhaps Relax by Frankie Goes to Hollywood wasn’t too sexually explicit as far as images were concerned (apart from the banned version, which is in the link), but the lyrics were definitely on the erotic, kinky side. I  also personally remember another artist who caused much commotion with her sex related videos. I’m talking of Madonna here, and the first video was Like a Prayer and the other one Justify my Love. (I know, a completely different music genre). Another artist like this was Prince, quite a sexual guy. For sure he didn’t hesitate to use sexy chicks and images in his videos.

I didn’t follow the 90s music too much, so I don’t remember any particular instances, my attention only got caught a lot of time later, in 2009 when Rammstein released their Liebe ist für alle da album. I’m talking mainly of the Pussy video, it’s been quite a shock to see it for the first time. Though I hear another video from that album also caused some controversy, however the version I saw (You tube, so there’s nothing inappropriate, You tube are a bunch of prudes) there’s nothing to open eyes wide.

Other bands and artists are going further, For example Placebo with their video to Protege-moi. Obviously you won’t find the uncensored version on Youtube…  those prudes out there take measures so that you don’t see anything unsuitable, they go even that far to censor the videoclip of Robin Thicke. IMO, Blurred Lines the x-rated version doesn’t have anything so hair raising to justify having to sign in to Youtube to confirm your age. Well, just some chicks prancing naked and that’s all.

Porn sex vs sex in reality

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I’ve recently come across this video:

While I basically agree with most of the points I still can’t say they are 100% truth, after all, stats is usually called a big fucking lie. They sure didn’t interview enough people to get really trustworthy data. Another thing is that depending on the result you want to get, you can manipulate the answers as much as you want.

So to begin with, the penis size. I can’t claim to have seen all the porn available in the net, but the dicks shown in the ones I have seen vary. They sure are not 9 inches, some are really smaller. The same in reality. Sure I’ve seen guys who had huge cocks which almost made me worried 😉 , some were smaller, well, I probably was lucky not to encounter owners of the really small ones.

Point no 2 – hairless intimate areas and their general look. Well, considering the fact that it’s not really so easy to get rid of hair from your whole pussy and ass area (I imagine, the same is true for men), then indeed, most of people in reality have quite furry intimates. One more thing not mentioned in the video, is that most porn actresses have their assholes bleached, there are special creams for that. That’s why they appear to be so pale. In reality, the skin just around the anus is quite dark.

Another point – the amount of foreplay. Well, if you are aware, it’s just a film where the actress got some lubricant in her pussy and the male acts got fluffed for the action, then it’s ok. Normally, especially we, women, need some pre attention.

The next important point mentioned – the time of the intercourse, which is quite short in a majority of male population.  Well, guys, if you’re so lazy as not to take some advice and learn how to prolong the pleasure, then sure, go on. Just don’t complain later on if your ladies are not really interested in sex. You see, for most of us these 3 minutes is not enough.

Why don’t 71% of women have orgasm due to penetration? The answers can be many – not enough arousal, worry at work, she may not be in the mood, or you may not be doing a good enough job and finishing too early… Several other reasons are also possible…

As for the other points mentioned in the video, such as lesbian sex, anal, facials or swallowing as well as threesomes or squirting – the sexual revolution still hasn’t taken over the minds of all the women. We are still taught that these things are dirty and that we should be ashamed to want to do them or to actually do them. Lack of knowledge is essential too, there was a time when I squirted regularly while masturbating. I was still a teenager who was discovering what her body could do at that time. But who knew about squirting then? I thought I was peeing and I learned to supress it. Now I’m learning to squirt again. And I don’t think I was and am the the only one. This must have happened to a lot of us.

It will take much more time to get rid of these preconceptions that certain things in sex are bad.

As for light bondage and the percentage mentioned in the video… Well, I think 50 Shades of Grey have taken care of this…

Can sex make your life longer, gents? Roizen’s formula

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Can having sex make your life expectancy longer? What do you think? Yes or no?

I’ve recently read an article that claims it is possible. Some Swedish scientists made a study already back in the 80s – they questioned 70 year olds about their habits and the results showed that those that were still having sex made it to 75. Another study done by Duke University followed 252 people over 25 years and the conclusions were similar: “Frequency of intercourse was a significant predictor of longevity.”

Well, it looks like good news. The general message  is then – fuck as much as you can. And even if you have problems getting it up due to any medical issues (or non medical), talk to your doctor and get yourself one of these latest pharmaceuticals – Viagra is passé. I’ve heard that Cialis is the answer 😉 You can also try one of those testosterone boosters. They are supposedly  based on natural ingredients. It’s worth a try especially if you have a horny and demanding (and younger) partner, gents. (Hmmm… Why do I think about some 60ish or even 70ish rockers like Jimmy Page at the very moment?) Bear in mind, the benefits of sex are a factor in all three categories of male mortality – heart disease, cancer and environmental causes (stress, accident, suicide) – and plenty of scientists are pushing the idea that the more sex you have the longer you’ll live. The Johnny Appleseed of the theory is Michael Roizen, a 62-year-old doctor who chairs the Wellness Institute at the Cleveland Clinic.

“For men the more the better” Roizen says. “The typical man who has 350 orgasms a year, versus the national average of around a quarter of that, lives about four years longer.” Another advantage is that you will feel some years younger than your contemporaries. Roizen suggests, with a straight face, that 700 a year could add up to eight years to your life. This is an ambitious prescription. Statistics say that the average American adult male has sex just 81 times a year.

Our female protagonist would be delighted to take care of Colin, Tony and Jim in this way after returning to the future. ’Tis almost a noble task, to make them live longer so that they write more music.

3 (12)Sorry for not posting for a week. I’ve been visiting family and I’m also sick.


Hot chocolate… Hot wax…

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Speaking of using temperature changes to excite your partner sexually, heat cannot stay unmentioned. I can imagine hundreds of scenarios when various hot, melted food products like chocolate or caramel get licked of the skin of your lover. And leaving hot food aside, hot wax is also exciting. I remember sticking my fingers into melted candles just to enjoy the feel of wax on my skin even though those situations I did it in were highly unerotic. So I can easily imagine how powerful impact it can have while used for sexual purposes even though I’ve never tried it myself yet.

However, with both of the above certain precautions are necessary. After all we want to have fun and not end up at emergency with a burned partner. So checking if the temperature is not too high is really crucial (about 50 degrees Centigrade).  Cheap soft white candles tend to be the lowest melt temperature wax, because of the lack of additives, so buying fancy ones may not be the best idea. Personally I’d be also careful about dripping hot wax directly on the delicate skin on women’s clits or assholes.  Perhaps warm chocolate which you could later lick off would be much better.

One more thing – hair. Sure a lot of women use hot wax to depilate, they even pay for it,  it’s still not the most pleasant sensation. We just suffer for beauty. So if your idea is to cause pleasure rather than pain make sure you have some baby oil to remove it easily.

And speaking of hot wax and candles – as you melt wax with fire, have something handy that you can use to extinguish the flames if the situation gets out of control. You don’t want to burn your house, do you?  Getting rid of pets, especially cats, from the bedroom wouldn’t be a bad idea either. Felines are nosy and a burning candle can be just too much of a temptation for a kitty to resist.

And don’t forget to put off the flame once you’re finished playing with hot wax and want to start fucking.


Cold as ice


What’s your attitude towards playing with changes in temperature in sex? Do you like using ice or ice-cream when you frolic with your partner in bed? Yasmin in our novel gets the taste of what it is and she enjoys it, but would she in real life? What about you?

This topic has just come to my mind, and has been brought there by fairly non-erotic experience. Namely IPL depilation… This year’s beach season is approaching so as I don’t want to scare the other beach users by showing them the furry beaver, I have dutifully gone to a beautician to undergo an IPL session. And it’s not the most pleasant experience – the area to be treated with that pulsed light has to be really chilled first, and it’s done by using frozen jelly…  And the little baggie that contains it has to be pressed against the skin for a longer while so that the light doesn’t cause burns later.

It’s not like in bed when you can use just one ice cube to tease and after teasing you lick the skin with your tongue. Or you use an ice cube after treating your partner with something hot… And don’t forget – your partner is already excited so she or he can experience it in a different way. Sudden changes of temperature can excite even more in these circumstances.

What do you think? Have you used used ice in your bed frolics?