Do men fake orgasms?

While searching for an idea for the new post I came across a piece of news that really surprised me. Men fake orgasms? After all it used to be said about us, women, that we fake our climaxes, how can a man fake it? And why?

Well, it seems a reality is different.

Professor Morgentaler, an associate clinical professor of urology at Harvard Medical School, had never heard of such a thing as well but then he got a surprise of his life when a patient walked into his surgery and stated: I’m faking orgasms. After he got over the puzzle of how a man could effectively pull off such a trick, he got to the patient’s motivation – having trouble climaxing during sex with his girlfriend, so he feigned pleasure for her benefit.  He “was simply trying to do what he believed was the right thing by her.”

You can read about this case as well as other cases from professor’s long medical career in his latest book: “Why Men Fake It: The Totally Unexpected Truth About Men and Sex” .

I can’t get no satisfaction…

I’ve found an interesting article recently describing the results of a survey done in Japan by a Japan Family Planning Association. And I must say the results were hardly surprising for me. So, the results say that 71.3 percent of the women indicated that they had masturbated in the past year. Well, this is hardly surprising, after all times are changing and masturbation is not something shameful or taboo but a nice way of exploring and discovering one’s own sexuality. The next finding however, is almost a cherry on the pie:  the examiners concluded that the rates are directly proportional to a lack of satisfaction in a conventional intercourse. Among unmarried women, 67.1 percent said they fake orgasms. The figure was slightly less (64.2 percent) for married women. This is also hardly eye opening, after all if we are not fully satisfied after the shagging we have to get our pleasure somehow. Not having an orgasm can have severe consequences for our mood and well being, and if we feel pissed cause we didn’t climax and a man is too blind (or too lazy or too sexually uneducated) to notice that a woman needs some more action, the worse for him.

We might start to look for another solution in the long run… How about choosing some mature, sex-wise, experienced guys (thank you, Cialis) instead of peers who watched too much porn and think that a woman gets ready for sex in just a few seconds? Not the case, gentelmen, especially if a woman is quite young cause those about 40 have higher libido levels and may react faster.

One more solution for a sexually unsatisfied woman is finding a girlfriend. Another woman will be really quicker to find all the pleasure points on her partner’s body, she will start checking in the same places she finds highly erogenous herself. And she knows where they are… Well, sure, no kids will be born out of such a union, unless some scientists come out how to make parthenogenesis possible.

Hmmm, both these solution would leave a vast amount of young men single, and if a woman in her 40s were interested in having a young horny stud it would probably work, especially once she has ‘trained’ him 3:)

Women and (fake) orgasm

You, guys, probably are perfectly aware of the fact that an average woman can fake an orgasm. Quite a lot of us still do, even though in the long run it’s not the most advisable path to take. I suppose everybody remembers the unforgettable scene from the old romantic comedy “When Harry met Sally”.

The truth is, making all these pleasure moans and groans is a piece of cake for any of us, we can stage a fake orgasm without any problem. One of the points is, all these sounds are for you, to guide you, we know you’re not clairvoyant and you would do with some prompts. But  when we masturbate in private we don’t really bother to make ‘a show’, the orgasm comes quietly. It’s just our breathing that may be more rugged.

Is there a way to tell a real orgasm? Well, watch the other video. This time as a link as it comes from a ‘naughty’ website. And again a  warning – don’t watch it at work.

So, when we really climax, we may completely lose control of our muscles. Our pussies and asses contract and you should be able to feel these spasms on your dick. Of course, their intensity may vary. It depends how skilled you are and how deep you have taken your woman into pleasure.