Internet and porn

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Have you ever wondered why erotica and porn have become so popular recently? Titles like 50 Shades of Grey sold in an astonishing amount of copies (Goddess, give us even 1/1000 of this success), and this particular book is not even the top kink as I’ve been told. There are tons that are more perverse, exploring various taboos like incest, sodomy, just to name a few.
The answer is – it’s the internet and the invention of an ebook, Kindle of whatever other format of it.
Imagine back, what it was like 15-20 years ago. You wanted to read some smut but… Well, there was this little  problem of buying it in a brick and mortar shop. If the shop employee was male and you were a woman, he could think you’re an easy catch if you wanted to buy and read porn. And even if you happened to buy from some catalog and have the books mailed to you, there was still a problem of reading. You could only indulge in the sexy contents in the privacy of your home. No reading on a bus or train while commuting. The book cover would give you away and you probably didn’t want to see scorn or disgust in the eyes of fellow passengers. Now, with your Kindle, or any other ebook reader, you’re safe. You can read whatever you want and wherever you want.
This is why the sale of erotica is booming.

But… There’s just one little problem. Amazon is not making it easy for us, erotica writers. You won’t find erotica books if you search ‘All departments’ in Amazon. You have to specify, books or Kindle store. It’s the case with our title as well. Smashwords, generally a more friendly towards indies such as us, also makes it difficult to find erotica. Actually, you won’t find it, if you go to the page and type any title of an erotic book. If you do, it will say: “The adult filter is active; content marked as adults-only by the author is not listed.”  Well, unless you have a direct link to it.

So even though they earn a ton of money on sex, erotica and simple porn, they still try make this access hard. Of course, everything to protect the underage and those prudish enough who don’t want to see and don’t even want to acknowledge it’s there.

You get similar approach on Tumblr recently – all adult blogs have been excluded from the search engines there, as you can imagine the users are protesting fiercely, as now you can only find these blogs if you have a direct link. Facebook is also making our lives hard – everyday I wake up dreading to log in and have a look. Is our book’s fan page still there or has it already been deleted, like many other erotica and bdsm related ones.

Looks like somebody really doesn’t like sex and also has false preconceptions as far as bdsm is concerned.

Where will this all lead and how will this situation evolve? Nobody can say, but I hope all those Facebook and Tumblr SEOs will come back to their senses and let adults have their safe, sane and consensual fun.

Having written the above I want to remind you that our book, Hekate’s Passage is available all the time from Smashwords, Amazon, Kobo and Barnes and Noble. Check it out.


Can sex make your life longer, gents? Roizen’s formula

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Can having sex make your life expectancy longer? What do you think? Yes or no?

I’ve recently read an article that claims it is possible. Some Swedish scientists made a study already back in the 80s – they questioned 70 year olds about their habits and the results showed that those that were still having sex made it to 75. Another study done by Duke University followed 252 people over 25 years and the conclusions were similar: “Frequency of intercourse was a significant predictor of longevity.”

Well, it looks like good news. The general message  is then – fuck as much as you can. And even if you have problems getting it up due to any medical issues (or non medical), talk to your doctor and get yourself one of these latest pharmaceuticals – Viagra is passé. I’ve heard that Cialis is the answer 😉 You can also try one of those testosterone boosters. They are supposedly  based on natural ingredients. It’s worth a try especially if you have a horny and demanding (and younger) partner, gents. (Hmmm… Why do I think about some 60ish or even 70ish rockers like Jimmy Page at the very moment?) Bear in mind, the benefits of sex are a factor in all three categories of male mortality – heart disease, cancer and environmental causes (stress, accident, suicide) – and plenty of scientists are pushing the idea that the more sex you have the longer you’ll live. The Johnny Appleseed of the theory is Michael Roizen, a 62-year-old doctor who chairs the Wellness Institute at the Cleveland Clinic.

“For men the more the better” Roizen says. “The typical man who has 350 orgasms a year, versus the national average of around a quarter of that, lives about four years longer.” Another advantage is that you will feel some years younger than your contemporaries. Roizen suggests, with a straight face, that 700 a year could add up to eight years to your life. This is an ambitious prescription. Statistics say that the average American adult male has sex just 81 times a year.

Our female protagonist would be delighted to take care of Colin, Tony and Jim in this way after returning to the future. ’Tis almost a noble task, to make them live longer so that they write more music.

3 (12)Sorry for not posting for a week. I’ve been visiting family and I’m also sick.


A man whose dick was cut off…

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Can you imagine having your dick cut off, gents? Most of you will probably shudder dreading to even think about such a disaster. Yikes!  Nevertheless it may happen, as it did to a John Wayne Bobbit. 20 years ago after a row with his then-wife, he fell asleep not suspecting that his pissed and vengeful spouse had ominous plans about his manhood. When he was sleeping she sliced off his cock and drove off with the severed organ then throw it out in a field.

Luckily for this mister, the wife realized what she had done and called for the emergency services – otherwise her husband would simply have died bleeding out. The missing dick was found, after a long and painstaking search as you can imagine, then a complicated surgery was performed.  The cock was sewn back to the John’s body and all the nerve connections were stitched. Hmm…hmmm, were they living in the US? And  his medical insurance paid for this???

Whoever paid for the surgery, the doctors did really a good job as the operation had unexpectedly miraculous effects. Even though doctors warned John he might never have sex again after such a serious injury he recovered completely to such an extent that he even became a porn star.  Apart from that he fucked about 70 women…

His example proves everything is possible, however, I wouldn’t recommend using this method just to pick and fuck more chicks. Your doctors may not be as skilled as the ones 20 years ago, moreover your insurance may refuse to pay. Other than that, is really fucking more chicks worth such a pain?


A witch hunt

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burning books

What does the above image resemble? Burning of Alexandria’s Library?  Holy Inquisition getting rid of the uncomfortable ideas and their creators? Or perhaps Nazis burning books in 1933? Or some more recent events where some Harry Potter books were burned?

Saturday was a sad day for the BDSM community on Facebook. Almost 200 pages were deleted thanks to actions of Women Action and the Media under the accusation of spreading violence against women. However the note from FB also mentions nudity, pornography and sexual solicitation. The said page at first denied being behind the attack but when a proof was found – mainly this screenshot, they stopped denying, it speaks for itself.

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Who are they to forbid adults to engage and propagate the lifestyle they want and enjoy? The lifestyle that doesn’t hurt anybody, and is certainly not violence against women as they want to imply. Subs can be men too. But whatever happens between a Sub and a Dom(me) is always consensual and can be stopped at any minute with a safe word.

People who run the pages that got removed and that still remain joined forces and fight. Not an easy fight – apparently Facebook wants an easy job and now is trying to make it difficult for these freedom speakers  to communicate through FB messaging, you can only wonder what will come next…

You don’t get hard core BDSM in Hekate’s Passage, just mild kink, playing with cuffs and other restraints, blindfolds, sex toys and being generally immoral, but I deeply sympathize with the pages that were removed. Some of them were our s4s partners (though I chose the lighter contents to share to better illustrate what goes on in the book). Such a form of censorship shouldn’t be taking place on Facebook, it’s like a witch hunt now. And if that organization of women ‘who know better even though they don’t know shit’ succeed, what other pages can they take on? Why not tackle other erotic pages and communities who dare to post these immoral obscenities and about pussies, dicks and fucking?

Pages unpublished on 6/22/13
1. The Naughty Room
2. Kinkier Side of Sex
3. It’s All About Sex Baby
4. Whatever u Say Not
5. Sinful Bytes
6. Pussy Cat Lounge II
7. Delightful Devlish Kink
8. Scarlett’s Roadhouse
9. Dr. Sexcellence
10. Missy’s Saloon
11. Eye Candy For All
12. Dairy of a sex fiend
13. Fabulous O
14. Fifty Shades of Us
15. Sugar and Spice
16. Master Grimm and slave nalani
17. love me some tits and ass
18. live, love, laugh
19. big bang hank
20. The pussy cat lounge
21. sexy real girls
22. fucked up and twisted couple
23. fucked up and twisted minds
24. Goregous GIRLS
25. Funny Fuckers
26. That’s the G-Spot
27. Cold Beer & Hot Nights
28. Fuck Off
29. Celebrity Dead Pool
30. jojo’s lil padded cell
31. socio demetis,
33. wenches & Mead
34. Devil’s Left Shoulder
35. Ken, The Sexually Frustrated Goat
36. filthy joke zone
37. No Whinner
38. The Strange Asylum and Shit
39. 18+ Adults
40. Adult shit not for kids
41. Pleasure island
42. stroke my ego,
43. parents playground
44. bitchin mamas and bad ass papas,
45. are you gonna cry,
46. sensual ecstasy x rated
47. Disturbed Submissive
48. she looks 18+ to me, social awkward,
49. slap in the right direction
50. sexy or slutty,
51. essence of pride
52. Full Throttle Lifestyle
53. sexorcist
54. SSG
55. Fairy Tales in La La Land
56. Dr Dirty Mind
57. Dr Dirty Minds II
58. BDSM International
59. Combat Grunts
60. Combat Infantry
61. Just the Tip of the Spear
62. Fn Oorah
63. Oorah nor Hooah
64. Shameful Dependapix
65. Hot Bods for Military Guys
66. The Person Above Me is a POG
67. Extremely Pissed Off Right 68. Wingers
69. Barriogirls fan page
70. see no hear no speak no evil
71. The loving Dom
72. Bound 4 Trouble
73. The Keepers Den
74. Lady Hecate
75. Incubus Delight
76. Bondage & Alternative Lifestyle
77. Adults place uncensored
78. Naughty Mums
79. Kytti and Sugar’s Red Room
80. Perverted Productions
81. Adult Lounge of Kink
82. Deviant Adults (main)
83. Dinkle Berry & Deviants
84. Sarcastic Bitch
85. Pain & pleasure in Maya’s world
86. Daddy’s Little Girl gone bad
87. Perverts need love
88. Going to hell who needs a ride
89. Really Funny Shit
90. I won’t back down
91. Delightfully Devilish Kink

Apart from there other pages that disappeared include:

– The insatiable sensualist,
– Clubhouse Uncensored,
– Firehouse freaks 18+,
– Girls who like to fuck as much as boys,
– Deviant Adults, and also Erotic confessions of a sex crazed southern belle.

I don’t see Yummi Love Channel (beautiful page with highly sensual photos) as well as Erotik (they also had really nice, brave  but still tasteful erotic pics).  😦

So as you see, it’s not only BDSM community that was hit, other pages that posted inconvenient contents for somebody are also gone.

Some of the above are already rebuild, they have established back up/shadow pages. Some are also moving to BDSMfriendbook… should we move too? It’s really depressing if you work on a page and then suddenly it’s gone, just because some delusional under-fucked hags who think that know better pulled some strings.

To Facebook moderators: I’ve once read how grueling and depressing your work is, going over all the posted pictures, some not really pleasant (to put it delicately)  – drastic and tragic proves how violent life can get, and sometimes you can’t just prevent bad things from happening. Just concentrate on this. Don’t harass adults who engage in consensual fun. These pages are deliberately set on 18+ or even 21+ so that in theory kids can’t see them. Well, if they do it’s not your problem, it’s also not a problem of the said pages. It should be the problem of parents who don’t spend enough time with their kids and let them unrestrained usage of internet.


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Which of you have participated in this stirring sexual activity, no matter if you have been on the top or on the bottom? If you’re a man, having your woman over you in this special way is super intimate. You can feel and smell her more  than in conventional oral sex positions, remember, she obscures the light so you’re partly in the darkness. And when one of your senses, like sight, is restricted, the others tend to become stronger. Additionally you may get a direct proof of her orgasm, seeing all those contractions and vibrations that happen to her pussy. Not to mention you may get a full load of her pussy juice if you’re efficient enough to make her squirt. If you’re a man and you’re on the top, you can just get your nuts and ass licked, your dick goes in the ‘wrong’ direction 😉

For the ladies, it’s exhilarating to dominate a man in this way, those with a dominant streak can go even further than that and play with some restraints, cuffing or binding your man’s hands. More than that, he doesn’t pleasure you only with his lips and tongue (and hands if he’s not cuffed), you additionally get his nose… mmmm…. Yes, lie to me, Pinocchio…

One more thing. Most of us have tongues that protrude only about 2 inches from your our mouths (well, this joke about an elderly guy licking his eyebrows comes to mind here ;), so if you want the bottom to be efficient it means getting quite close. Which in turn means he may have some difficulties breathing. You just have to be careful not to choke him – don’t get too lost in pleasure, you want him alive, don’t you?

The above matter can be handled quite well though with special furniture. It’s possible to buy facesitting stools, though they can get quite pricy. However, if you’re a DIY person, it’s not really difficult to fashion a stool for this purpose from an old chair or stool. Just playing with some tools trimming and cutting some old furniture, and presto.


Why women make so much noise during sex?

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Have you ever wondered why some women moan so much during sex? Some are even so noisy that your neighbours can hear you too well… Well, it can be embarrassing, but if the neighbours know your name and clap their hands when you leave your lover’s apartment you can feel kind of proud of yourself… But anyway, what is the reason that we, women, moan and whimper when we experience pleasure? After all, when we masturbate on our own, without a camcorder to send the sexy video somewhere into cyber space, most of us keep quiet…

Well, one of the logical answers that I was thinking was a correct one till now was – we moan to direct you, gents. You’re not clairvoyant, you don’t feel what we feel, you don’t have some kind of sensor device in your skin. There’s no way for you to know if what you’re actually doing is pleasing us or not if we don’t tell you somehow. That’s why we moan. The louder we do, you know then what you are doing is a good idea. Especially if you bother to learn a bit about women’s sexual physiology and find out how to recognize a female orgasm.

It seems this kind of explanation was not enough for some scientists. One of them, a British primatologist, Dr. Stuart Semple came up with another thesis after studying and analyzing the mating behaviours of baboons.  He says females make so much noise while mating because… they invite more potential admirers and lovers. This way they tell the males they are hot and ready for some more frolics.

Thorough study and comparative analysis of all the findings have showed that baboon females scream in this particular way only when they ovulate, they don’t behave this way in other phases of the cycle. Males also rather keep quiet during mating – hmmm, looks like they don’t want to invite competition. Looks logical… They want exclusivity, that’s one thing, and on the other hand they don’t want attention of some predator hunting in the area. So some males even may try to shut up their partners in whatever way… Does it sound familiar to you, gents, or not? 😉

A lot of you gents, probably have heard these loud ‘ohs’ and ‘ahs’ coming to your ears. Haven’t these sounds attracted your attention? Haven’t they made you horny enough to think of following this love call?

The conclusion of the finding is that we, human females, may also be still in some way like these baboons…Still hot, ready, unsated… Perhaps we should really knock at the neighbour’s door next time and invite you to a menage a trois romp… After all, the more, the merrier…

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